December GRG Connections

Grandparents Raising Grandchildren

Issue 6        Volume 6


Enough is Enough!!!!…Enough of what? 

Over-indulgence during the Holidays……..

Enough of everything. The ability to know what is enough is one of the most important skills you can teach as parents.  “Enough for now” is a crucial component in teaching children about delayed gratification, a skill many over-indulged adults lack. Knowing what is enough supports good health; it protects other people and the environment, and it can be a protection against greed and unethical behaviors. Pages 82-83

Overindulgence is a sure way to create trained helplessness and learned lack-of-skills in anyone. Page 94

Excerpts from “How Much Is Enough”

By Jean Illsley Clarke, PH.D. – Connie Dawson, PH.D. – David Bredehoft, PH.D.




  • Discussion of similar problems.  Ideas as to helping our grandchild.
  • I enjoy your workshop very much.  Would like it if our workshop would be a little longer.
  • Discussions about behavior & books to read.  Everyone able and willing to talk about problems openly.
  • 2 co-leaders are very caring individuals.  They make grandparents feel very comfortable and at ease.  They did a wonderful job.
  • Positive, Lots of sharing.
  • Finding out how similar others’ problems are to mine and how to deal with them.
  • The complete workshop.  I had a wonderful time and can’t wait to see u guys again!
  • Interaction with others in the same situation.  Some good ideas mentioned.  Very helpful – keep up the good work – glad to hear of reading material available and resources.
  • Everything!  How to use communication with grandchild and parents.  Lots of advice.
  • Able to talk with others.  Thanks for the help.
  • Good mix of grandparents and issues.
  • Having time to talk with others.
  • Meeting other grandparents.  It was wonderful! Excellent!
  • Learned more about the brain.
  • Workshop on brain interesting and informative.
  • Presented in language that I could understand.
  • It was very educational.  Well prepared.  Job well done.
  • Personalities of the two facilitators are warm and welcoming.  Always a pleasure to be here.
  • Each grandparent seemed comfortable with sharing.


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